От артиста (пикапа) не увиливай
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arbekaОт пикапера не увиливай, от тиклинга не уворачивайся
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avb
14 октября 2023, 11:23:04
"Нет. Во всяком случае, тут нет подобия: смех и секс несовместимы.
Поэтому, кстати, пикаперам и рекомендуют не слишком увлекаться остроумием, не смешить девушек слишком много, часто и т.д. Это затрудняет переход к... другим формам общения, назовём это так, существенно отвлекает девушку от других мыслей и ощущений.
Другое дело, что щекотка щекотке рознь, термин слишком широкий, чтобы использовать его корректно в данном случае.
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Пика́п (от англ. pick up) — разновидность деятельности, направленной на знакомство с целью соблазнения[1]. Пикап состоит из техник для соблазнения женщин, которые распространяются в пика́п-сообществе в интернете и реальности. Также проводятся семинары и тренинги, издаются пособия по пикапу. Человек, занимающийся пикапом, называется пика́пером (англ. pick-up artist, сокращённо PUA).
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"Тиклинг в переводе с английского означает, как ни странно, «щекотка». Как ты догадалась из названия, это практика, где один партнер щекочет другого и при этом ощущает сексуальное возбуждение, хотя тот, над кем манипулируют, тоже может испытать приятные ощущения и даже получить оргазм. Про тиклинг как самостоятельную практику заговорили примерно в 90-е годы в США: тогда появились первые тематические ролики. Есть мнение, что такие видео находили своих покупателей еще в 60-е годы: был заказчик, который придумывал сюжет, отправлял его вместе с оплатой производителям и вскоре получал кассету, где порноактеры щекотали друг друга, а затем переходили к сексу.
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Tickle torture is the use of tickling to abuse, dominate, harass, humiliate, or interrogate an individual. [1] While laughter is popularly thought of as a pleasure response, in tickle torture, the one being tickled may laugh whether or not they find the experience pleasant.[1] In a tickling situation, laughter can indicate a panic reflex rather than a pleasure response, and the tickling may be a consensual activity or one that is forced, depending on the circumstances.[2] In a consensual form, tickling may be part of a mutually fulfilling, physically intimate act between partners. However, tickle torture can cause real physical and mental distress in a victim, which is why it has been used as an interrogation method or to simply show dominance over another person. Usually tickling is done on feet and armpits after tying the person's ankles and wrists. The recipient is also often stripped to their underwear.
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History
In ancient Japan, those in positions of authority could administer punishments to those convicted of crimes that were beyond the criminal code. This was called shikei, which translates as ‘private punishment.’ One such torture was kusuguri-zeme: "merciless tickling."[6]
An 1887 article entitled "England in Old Times" states, "Gone, too, are the parish stocks, in which male offenders against public morality formerly sat imprisoned, with their legs held fast beneath a heavy wooden yoke, while sundry small but fiendish boys improved the occasion by deliberately pulling off their shoes and tickling the soles of the men’s defenseless feet."[7]
A 1903 article[attribution needed] described an immobilized suicidal patient at the Hudson River State Hospital who was tied to a bed for his own safety. While he lay helpless, the patient's feet were tickled by one of the hospital attendants, Frank A. Sanders. "Sanders is said to have confessed that while intoxicated he amused himself by tickling the feet and ribs of Hayes and pulling his nose." Sanders also gave his restrained victim a black eye. Another hospital employee came upon Sanders while he was entertaining himself at his patient's expense, and the criminal was brought before a grand jury.[8]
In Vernon Wiehe's book Sibling Abuse, he published his research findings regarding 150 adults who were abused by their siblings during childhood. Several reported tickling as a type of physical abuse they experienced, and based on these reports it was revealed that abusive tickling is capable of provoking extreme physiological reactions in the victim, such as vomiting, urinary incontinence, and losing consciousness due to inability to breathe.[9] There is currently no evidence that tickle torture was ever widespread or was practiced by governments. The very small amount of related documentation discovered thus far originates from England and the United States
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Consensual tickling or tickling fetish refers to any instance of tickling in which the party being tickled has given consent to the party providing the tickling to do so. Some people find tickling to be an erotic experience. They may prefer to be the dominant (tickling) party or the submissive (tickled) party, or they may enjoy both. The people in these roles are often referred to as the "tickler" and the "ticklee" respectively. Some people may prefer to be tickled in specific areas, usually erogenous zones or other particularly sensitive areas of the skin.[1]
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Methods
A tickle session usually begins with one submissive partner allowing the other to tie them up or restrain them in a position that exposes bare parts of the body, particularly those that are sensitive to tickling. It is commonly associated with the tickling of the bare feet or armpits though many parts of the human body are also deemed ticklish like the sides of the torso, neck, knee, midriff, thighs, navel, and the ribs. For this reason the submissive may be tied in a position that exposes their whole body for the tickler to access and would typically be in their underwear or partially to fully naked. The latter could also be intended as a form of humiliation or exhibitionism for the submissive while being tickled or as visual stimulus for the person doing the tickling, though this is not always the case.
The bondage methods of the tickling usually follows the same basic methods. The object of the bondage is to render the submissive unable to prevent the tickling, as well as rendering the ticklish areas of the submissive vulnerable. The submissive is usually bound in a sitting or lying position rather than a standing one as to expose the soles of the feet which are often among the most ticklish areas of the body. This is also a generally more comfortable position for the submissive to be in. Other common positions may include over-arm ties, hogties and spread-eagle positions. The restraint of the arms above the head or to the side leaves the upper body and underarms susceptible to the tickling. This enables the tickler to use whichever methods or implements they choose, e.g. fingers, tongue, beard, feathers, brush, pine cones, salt sticks, electric toothbrush or a hairbrush.
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avb
14 октября 2023, 11:23:04
"Нет. Во всяком случае, тут нет подобия: смех и секс несовместимы.
Поэтому, кстати, пикаперам и рекомендуют не слишком увлекаться остроумием, не смешить девушек слишком много, часто и т.д. Это затрудняет переход к... другим формам общения, назовём это так, существенно отвлекает девушку от других мыслей и ощущений.
Другое дело, что щекотка щекотке рознь, термин слишком широкий, чтобы использовать его корректно в данном случае.
.................
Пика́п (от англ. pick up) — разновидность деятельности, направленной на знакомство с целью соблазнения[1]. Пикап состоит из техник для соблазнения женщин, которые распространяются в пика́п-сообществе в интернете и реальности. Также проводятся семинары и тренинги, издаются пособия по пикапу. Человек, занимающийся пикапом, называется пика́пером (англ. pick-up artist, сокращённо PUA).
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"Тиклинг в переводе с английского означает, как ни странно, «щекотка». Как ты догадалась из названия, это практика, где один партнер щекочет другого и при этом ощущает сексуальное возбуждение, хотя тот, над кем манипулируют, тоже может испытать приятные ощущения и даже получить оргазм. Про тиклинг как самостоятельную практику заговорили примерно в 90-е годы в США: тогда появились первые тематические ролики. Есть мнение, что такие видео находили своих покупателей еще в 60-е годы: был заказчик, который придумывал сюжет, отправлял его вместе с оплатой производителям и вскоре получал кассету, где порноактеры щекотали друг друга, а затем переходили к сексу.
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Tickle torture is the use of tickling to abuse, dominate, harass, humiliate, or interrogate an individual. [1] While laughter is popularly thought of as a pleasure response, in tickle torture, the one being tickled may laugh whether or not they find the experience pleasant.[1] In a tickling situation, laughter can indicate a panic reflex rather than a pleasure response, and the tickling may be a consensual activity or one that is forced, depending on the circumstances.[2] In a consensual form, tickling may be part of a mutually fulfilling, physically intimate act between partners. However, tickle torture can cause real physical and mental distress in a victim, which is why it has been used as an interrogation method or to simply show dominance over another person. Usually tickling is done on feet and armpits after tying the person's ankles and wrists. The recipient is also often stripped to their underwear.
..............
History
In ancient Japan, those in positions of authority could administer punishments to those convicted of crimes that were beyond the criminal code. This was called shikei, which translates as ‘private punishment.’ One such torture was kusuguri-zeme: "merciless tickling."[6]
An 1887 article entitled "England in Old Times" states, "Gone, too, are the parish stocks, in which male offenders against public morality formerly sat imprisoned, with their legs held fast beneath a heavy wooden yoke, while sundry small but fiendish boys improved the occasion by deliberately pulling off their shoes and tickling the soles of the men’s defenseless feet."[7]
A 1903 article[attribution needed] described an immobilized suicidal patient at the Hudson River State Hospital who was tied to a bed for his own safety. While he lay helpless, the patient's feet were tickled by one of the hospital attendants, Frank A. Sanders. "Sanders is said to have confessed that while intoxicated he amused himself by tickling the feet and ribs of Hayes and pulling his nose." Sanders also gave his restrained victim a black eye. Another hospital employee came upon Sanders while he was entertaining himself at his patient's expense, and the criminal was brought before a grand jury.[8]
In Vernon Wiehe's book Sibling Abuse, he published his research findings regarding 150 adults who were abused by their siblings during childhood. Several reported tickling as a type of physical abuse they experienced, and based on these reports it was revealed that abusive tickling is capable of provoking extreme physiological reactions in the victim, such as vomiting, urinary incontinence, and losing consciousness due to inability to breathe.[9] There is currently no evidence that tickle torture was ever widespread or was practiced by governments. The very small amount of related documentation discovered thus far originates from England and the United States
...............
Consensual tickling or tickling fetish refers to any instance of tickling in which the party being tickled has given consent to the party providing the tickling to do so. Some people find tickling to be an erotic experience. They may prefer to be the dominant (tickling) party or the submissive (tickled) party, or they may enjoy both. The people in these roles are often referred to as the "tickler" and the "ticklee" respectively. Some people may prefer to be tickled in specific areas, usually erogenous zones or other particularly sensitive areas of the skin.[1]
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Methods
A tickle session usually begins with one submissive partner allowing the other to tie them up or restrain them in a position that exposes bare parts of the body, particularly those that are sensitive to tickling. It is commonly associated with the tickling of the bare feet or armpits though many parts of the human body are also deemed ticklish like the sides of the torso, neck, knee, midriff, thighs, navel, and the ribs. For this reason the submissive may be tied in a position that exposes their whole body for the tickler to access and would typically be in their underwear or partially to fully naked. The latter could also be intended as a form of humiliation or exhibitionism for the submissive while being tickled or as visual stimulus for the person doing the tickling, though this is not always the case.
The bondage methods of the tickling usually follows the same basic methods. The object of the bondage is to render the submissive unable to prevent the tickling, as well as rendering the ticklish areas of the submissive vulnerable. The submissive is usually bound in a sitting or lying position rather than a standing one as to expose the soles of the feet which are often among the most ticklish areas of the body. This is also a generally more comfortable position for the submissive to be in. Other common positions may include over-arm ties, hogties and spread-eagle positions. The restraint of the arms above the head or to the side leaves the upper body and underarms susceptible to the tickling. This enables the tickler to use whichever methods or implements they choose, e.g. fingers, tongue, beard, feathers, brush, pine cones, salt sticks, electric toothbrush or a hairbrush.
